Where the heck are we and why are we here?

One weekend in the late 90’s my siblings (grown adults then) and parents (aging) decided it would be such fun to camp for a long weekend together. My husband did not camp, and my, then, young kids would not have fit in on this trip. So I met up with everyone else, solo. Nostalgia had us chose a coastal campground in southern Maine.

I was prepared. Had my tent from the folk festival and a collection of must have items that had been growing. I knew what to expect and how to be comfortable. The rest of my family did not.

The first night started with everyone escaping the campfire early (“too smoky! too buggy! too cold!”) to the imagined warmth and comfort of their tents/sleeping bags.  A couple hours into the evening my sister woke me asking to borrow my car so she could find a hotel room. My father had crawled onto the bed of my brother’s pick-up, trying to sleep in the open air and my mother was sitting in their car pretending she could sleep sitting up.

“Mom, the seat back reclines, you don’t have to sit straight up”

       “I know how the seat works. I WANT to sit up. I have to watch out for your father.”


At 2 AM my sister rolled back in to the site and slept in my car. No hotel vacancies anywhere.  Duh, its August, in Maine!

The next morning we were the saddest, tiredest group of people wrapped in blankets, huddled around a morning fire, wondering who had forgot about bringing/making coffee. I had slept wonderfully, but it did not seem right to boast about it. I think I was the only one who enjoyed the day-long deep sea fishing trip that had been pre-planned.

So all of this leads me to ask you:

Besides a tent/rv/shelter, sleeping bag/bedding, basic food with eating/drinking utensils and a camp chair, what are your Top 5 “can’t camp without” items or luxuries?

Here’s mine:

  1. Cooler/fridge. I guess if its already part of your RV you don’t have to list it. I am still tenting and have a large, fabulous 5-day cooler that really lasts five days. I freeze water in gallon milk jugs and two will keep everything perfectly chilled for up to five days as long as I don’t leave the cooler in the sun! Using the jugs also prevents food from getting water logged. I also freeze my pint-sized bottles of drinking water and drink as they thaw.
  2. Head lamp. Yup. Really good to be able to SEE WHERE YOU ARE GOING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT AND HAVE YOUR HANDS FREE TO DEAL WITH STUFF, if you know what I mean.
  3. Air or foam mattress, or cot. No sleep makes me cranky. Really cranky. Again, your RV may have these built in, my tent does not.
  4. Solar shower bag. Not necessarily for showering. I tie one to the roof rack of my car and use it for general hand rinsing, teeth brushing,etc. Anytime I need a spritz of water to clean/rinse something.  Have also used for showering and that works great too.
  5. Wine/book. OK, technically two items, but call it my relax pack. A decent bottle of wine (or pre-mixed margarita bottle works too!) and a good book ices my cake.
    Yup, time for obligatory fur-baby pic.

    So, what are your Top 5 must haves? Please post in a comment below!


Calling Wannabes!

Obviously there has been quite the lag between posts here! I have fallen deep down the rabbit hole of research, reading, looking and even checking out some options locally.

I have been spending the most time on  cheaprvliving.com site, making some new virtual friends and realizing there are so many folks out there that are in the same holding pattern as I am – working that 9-5, living in a sticks&bricks, and yearning for retirement or at least part-time escapes until full time is possible.

So I am going to try and breathe more life into this site as a place for wannabes to share and chat. And I need to do more of my own stream of consciousness sharing to keep it going too.

And, of course, post more pics of the boys! (If you are landing on this page first and want more of my back-story, use the Previous link at the top, right to cycle back through earlier posts.)sfsquare

So where is my head after all this research?

Still wanting a T@B for the short term (i.e.  until retirement!)

I went to see a used one at a dealer a couple weeks ago while in a far off town on other business (no dealers near me!)

Although the pics online line looked great, reality was a little disappointing. A bit of body damage and probably a roof leak made me walk away.  But I did get to check out a brand new one, in the exact floorplan I want and standing in it made me so happy…I still think this is my best interim option, just gotta get there.

Long term? I am seeing myself in a short Class C.  My current list-topper is a Minnie Winnie 22R. No slide outs, just a well laid out box on wheels, completely self-contained. Yup. minwin22r

I def could make this work!

So I am asking you to share your dreams here too! Its fun to dream and it does not cost a penny!